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Does Your Once Loving Child Seem to Pull Away More Every Day?

Parenting through the preteen and teen years requires a different approach...

If you're seeking an approach that truly works, the time to act is now.

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You Know That Feeling of Guilt After Losing Your Cool or Making Empty Threats...

That's what happens when you're triggered, feel powerless, and are exhausted from trying everything to reach your child, yet their emotional outbursts and defiance just won't quit.​

Unfortunately, losing your cool doesn't improve your relationship; in fact, it makes your child feel misunderstood and impacts their sense of emotional safety (with you and others) for years to come.​

Have you found yourself:

  • Exhausted from trying to find the right parenting approach to get your child on board with your rules, and nothing seems to work.​

  • Worrying about their current or future decision-making because your relationship lacks trust.​

  • In all-out screaming matches with your big-feeling child, unsure how to cultivate the loving relationship you desire.​

  • On the receiving end of their emotional outbursts with no idea how to help them, feeling more powerless by the day.​

  • Sounding like a broken record—lecturing, nagging, begging, trying to communicate calmly—only to lose your cool again and again.​

  • Second-guessing your parenting decisions and approach, constantly searching for the perfect fix to help set them up for success because nothing seems to get through.​

  • Fearful that one wrong move will put you on the fast track to becoming a "no-contact" story 20 years from now.​

Mama, You're Not Alone! 

The world is chaotic and there is a lot of noise about what IS the best approach…

 

Many parents find themselves wanting to parent with compassion—call it Gentle Parenting if you like...​

But the real problem is, this was NOT their experience growing up. So when push comes to shove, they revert to old ways of parenting.​

Punishment, grounding, taking away phones, computers, social media—anything to get them to 'care.' But what you get in return is eye rolls, sighs, snarky remarks, a stubborn wall that continues to remind you that no matter what you do, they are not phased...​

But they ARE phased... Each argument, each punishment, each time her emotions are dismissed by you, she falls deeper into the core belief that YOU DON'T CARE. 

 

✨That They Are Not Worth YOUR Effort.✨

 

When you let your emotions win, your child is losing, over and over.

Dismissing this as 'teen angst' and hoping they'll 'grow out of it' does nothing but ensure a cycle of escalating difficulties, further tearing apart their self-worth and your relationship.​

The longer these issues remain unaddressed, the more complex and entrenched they become, leading to exacerbated parenting challenges and long-term emotional health struggles for your child.​

 

Making a simple yet powerful shift in your parenting approach and embracing a New Healthier path forward...

 

Living CALM - IS that SHIFT!

 

It offers a proven method to teach parents how to handle even the most triggering parenting moments and help them raise big-feeling kids—with less struggle and more self-confidence (for both of you) and connection.​

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Imagine if...

  • You could finally stop taking their behaviors and attitudes personally, allowing them to experience their emotional ups and downs while you remain their safe place to land.​
  • You didn't have to yell, punish, or guilt-trip your child to get them to help out, do what you ask, and cooperate.​
  • You could have productive and peaceful conversations without snark, attitude, and eye rolls, and actually grow together.​
  • You build trust in your relationship with your child and feel confident that as they grow into their teen years and beyond, they're capable of making healthy and safe choices.​
  • You could be the parent you want to be, finally parenting in a way that leaves you feeling good about your approach.​

This is exactly what we're achieving for families with Living CALM.​

 

If You're Here, You're a Parent Who Wants to Raise Your Children in an Environment Even Better Than the One You Were Raised In...

 

Especially through the preteen and teen years, where hormones, shifting needs, and struggles can make parenting feel like an uphill battle.​

INTRODUCING...

The breakthrough parenting resource, crafted exclusively for moms ready to transform their family dynamic. Imagine effortlessly guiding your child to fully understand themself, make wise choices, and approach life with solid confidence. Say hello to a future where your big feelers thrive, deeply connected to their true self. Because every mom deserves the key to unlocking her child's fullest potential.

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I feel much calmer and able to tackle the issues that we're having with our son now without being completely overwhelmed and underwater. I just want to thank you for that. For keeping it real and using your education, skills, and experience to help moms like me. I don't feel so alone and so bad about myself as a mother as l was feeling.

Megan
The biggest shift for my family...  I have language I can use with my kids to get to the heart of an issue or situation when it arises. I have words and practices I can use with myself when I am feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or catch myself falling back into old patterns. 
 
AMS - Mom of 3

This course has definitely given me perspective on how there can be multiple true stories and sides to one situation. I have learned to step outside my initial emotional reactions to see things differently. appreciate that this group has taught me to treat and respect my teen as his own person, giving him a voice and a vote on things concerning him. 

Asena

This course has given me so many tools to support my kids who have struggled with mental health issues for so long. Pam and the community have been so helpful in normalizing the tough stuff and providing support without judgment, this was so huge for me. 

AMS Mom of 2 
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"THEIR RELATIONSHIP HAS COMPLETELY SHIFTED"

My kids used to fight, because they interpreted their siblings’ actions as uncaring, and it caused me so much stress. But now they have learned how to communicate and regulate their own emotions, they have a deeper more loving. connected relationships between themselves without me being involved in refereeing their interactions, and when there is conflict we all have the tools to handle it.

Jodi G - Mom of 3 Daughters
MODULE 1

Calm Mastery 

An introduction to how all of this actually works—so you can tackle the overwhelm, reactivity, and emotional chaosthat often lead to conflict and disconnection at home. You’ll learn how to soothe your nervous system, so you can respond instead of react when your big-feeling child is struggling to manage theirs. This creates a more peaceful home environment where your child feels safe to grow, learn, and navigate their emotions—even when the outside world feels anything but calm.

 

MODULE 2

Your Resilience Blueprint

Here you will address the inconsistency and emotional rollercoaster of parenting by integrating nervous system regulation habits and innovative brain hacks designed to fortify your mental resilience and emotional stability. This ensures a safe, supportive, and consistent environment for your big-feeling child to thrive in. By modeling emotional management and regulation, your child will feel safe to figure out this process for themselves, knowing they can trust you to stay steady—even when emotions run high.

MODULE 3

Blocks to Breakthroughs

The mind is so powerful! In this module, you will unravel the tangled web of thoughts and beliefs that obstruct your desired parenting path. You'll gain clarity and awareness around the limiting beliefs that hinder your confidence, empowering you to guide your big-feeling child with assurance—even when things feel messy or unpredictable.

MODULE 4

Rewiring the Brain

As you move along your journey of shifting your thoughts and beliefs, you'll learn to move from negative, knee-jerk reactions to thoughtful, intentional responses by altering your brain’s processing patterns. You’ll overcome self-sabotage and communication barriers that create distance, and instead, begin to foster a closer, more connected bond with your big-feeling child.

MODULE 5

How to Talk So Your Child Will Listen

Communication is at the root of your ability to connect with and support your child. In this module, you’ll tackle the communication breakdowns and boundary battles that often lead to arguments, defiance, and disconnection. You’ll master listening and communication skills that ensure your big-feeling child feels heard and respected, promoting mutual understanding and a stronger, more cooperative relationship.

MODULE 6

Becoming a Mindful Mom

In this module, you will break away from the cycle of judgment and criticism that strains the mother-daughter relationship. Embrace mindfulness principles to nurture a supportive, open relationship that encourages your daughter to be her best self.

MODULE 7

Mini-Daily Practices to Stay Chill

With daily mini-practices and easy-to-follow resources, you’ll explore cutting-edge strategies to shift the way your brain processes, focuses, and communicates. You’ll develop simple, sustainable habits that foster mindfulness and emotional regulation, enhancing your ability to engage and connect with your big-feeling child—even on the toughest days.

MODULE 8

Parenting with Confidence

When you learn to trust yourself and your child, your whole relationship shifts. In this module, you’ll confront the uncertainty and second-guessing that undermines your parenting and drains your energy. You’ll learn to trust your intuition, understand your big-feeling child’s emotional needs, and cultivate a relationship grounded in mutual understanding and trust—so both of you can feel more confident, capable, and connected.

MODULE 9

Peer Pressure & Your Preteen (Teen)

Raising preteen and teenage kids comes with its own unique set of challenges. In this module, you’ll uncover the most effective ways to help your big-feeling child navigate peer pressure, avoid risky behavior, and embrace who they truly are. You’ll also fine-tune your ability to lead authentically, tune out societal noise, and focus on what truly matters for your child’s emotional development, self-worth, and overall well-being.

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Through the Living CALM Experience, You Receive: 


Fast-track your success!

  • Instant access to the pre-work that will immediately shift how you show up for your big-feeling child—with more clarity, calm, and confidence.

  • Nine transformative video + audio training modules (outlined above) to guide you step-by-step through building a connected, emotionally healthy relationship with your child.

  • Lifetime access + all future updates, so you can return to the tools whenever you need them, and stay aligned as your child grows and evolves.

  • Beautifully designed workbooks + transcripts for every module to make learning easy and accessible—however you prefer to take it in.

  • A powerful library of affirmations, meditations, journaling prompts, and embodied practices to help you anchor your growth and integrate everything you’re learning.

Plus Instant Access to these bonuses upon enrollment:

Fast-track your success!
  • BONUS 1 >>  3-Month Access to the Aligned Moms Society
    ($599 Value)
    Step into a powerful community of like-minded moms and receive direct support from Pam with 2–3 live group coaching calls per month. This is the only place you get this level of real-time guidance—ask your biggest parenting questions and get personalized, compassionate coaching to help you navigate even the trickiest moments with your child.
  • BONUS 2 >> Harmony at Home: Parenting Without Yelling
    ($197 Value)
    A 28-day immersion into effective, real-world parenting tools to get your child to listen, cooperate, and engage—without yelling, punishments, or screen time threats. You’ll discover what actually works (even when they push back) and begin to lead with calm confidence instead of chaos.
  • BONUS 3 >> Vault Access: Past Coaching Calls Library
    ($9,997 Value)
    Get instant access to the full AMS Vault of coaching calls, packed with high-impact insights on mindset, parenting, emotional regulation, boundary-setting, and navigating the complex evolution of your relationship with your child. This treasure trove of support is the equivalent of having Pam in your back pocket, ready to guide you anytime.
  •  BONUS 4 >> The CALM Motherhood Immersion
    ($697 Value – Pay-in-Full Exclusive)
    This is your monthly anchor for growth and integration. When you pay in full, you’ll unlock 12 months of exclusive content—EFT tapping sessions, guided meditations, and powerful journaling prompts—to help you deepen your transformation, embody your CALM, and lead your family with unshakable presence.
    This is where the biggest breakthroughs happen.
    Only available to pay-in-full clients.

It’s Time to Parent With a Plan, Not Just Hope.

Think about the last 6 months.

How many moments felt like a confusing blur of emotional outbursts, second-guessing, and walking on eggshells?

Now think about the next 6 months.

**It will change—**but the direction it takes is up to you.

You can keep fumbling through arguments, power struggles, and disconnection, feeling like you're constantly behind while your child grows more distant. The truth is, our kids are navigating a world that’s wildly different than the one we grew up in—one where they’re armed with language about boundaries, gaslighting, emotional labor, and therapeutic concepts we didn’t learn until adulthood (if at all).

And they’re calling us out.

Not because they don’t love us—because they need more from us.

More emotional safety. More clarity. More calm. More leadership.

And if you weren’t taught how to feel safely, set boundaries, or regulate yourself… how are you supposed to teach them?

That’s where Living CALM comes in.

This is your blueprint for raising your big-feeling child with clarity, confidence, and connection. You’ll move through these messy, emotional developmental phases with support and ease, not fear and frustration.

You'll create a new trajectory for your relationship—one that fosters:

✨ Cooperation instead of conflict
✨ Connection instead of chaos
✨ A healthy, resilient sense of self—for both of you

Living CALM teaches you what most of us never learned:
How to stay steady while your child falls apart—and how to guide them safely through the storm.

Ready to Create a More Connected Future?

Don’t wait for the next breakdown to decide it’s time to change.

Join Living CALM today and take the first step toward transforming your parenting—and your relationship with your child—one calm, empowered moment at a time.

👉 ENROLL NOW and start building the calm, confident foundation your family deserves. 

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Meet Your Teacher


Hi! I'm Pam Godbois, LICSW

Licensed therapist, parenting coach, brain hack nerd, and mom of a teenage daughter. 

As a therapist and mother, I share a deep passion (and Understanding!) for supporting moms as they navigate the challenges of raising daughters.

One of the things I’ve found time and time again is that moms often fall into parenting habits based on how they were parented, even if they really don't want to. 

Parenting starts to get more challenging around the 3rd grade, and moms often will try anything to fix things but it just makes matters worse.  

Twenty-five years as a therapist has taught me this, there are a lot of things we can do to help our daughters avoid the pitfalls struggles, and challenges.

And that's exactly what we are doing inside Living CALM!  I look forward to seeing you inside! 

 xoxo

I would go from 0-100 in a matter of seconds whenever chaos arose or kids started yelling. I had no idea how to manage my own emotions/nervous system and let that overflow into how I would react to a situation. I feel a great sense of calm now that I have the tools to manage my nervous system and I feel that has had such a positive impact on my family as well as my own wellbeing.

Amanda

Pam gives us the best tools and accountability for helping us feel successful as mothers.

I no longer feel lost googling for answers and l've stopped torturing myself with perpetual uncertainty. The brain- space, and sanity this group has given me is Amazing!

Mandy

I feel as though I have healed my relationship with Miss 11 and she's voluntarily hugging me and saying she loves me. We had FUN tonight swimming with the dog. Gives me the encouragement that I can make this work for Mr 8 & I'm setting boundaries and making sure my needs are also met.

Leslie

The encouragement, self-reflection, and guidance I received truly aligns me with the tools I needed to show up as my best self as a mother. One of the most helpful parts of the program so far was the flow-by-flow language customized to my particular situation. I used that language and mindset) over and over again.

Dawn

I was struggling with my 11-year-old so much when I joined, and this course has been a game changer for getting me to shift my approach AND getting her to be more agreeable. We are no longer fighting over every little thing. 

Monica

Pam's understanding of neurodivergence and experience with mental health has been better than any therapy I have had in my life. Not only that, it has helped me shift my approach and stay calm with my kids, which has been SO hard for me.  

LC- Mom of 2

This course has been so amazingly helpful, but I'll be honest, the best thing is the fact that Pam swears, such a great balance of expert teaching and authentic fellow mom, it's like I've finally found my tribe.

Jo

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