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Does Your Once Loving Daughter, Seem to Hate You More Everyday?
Parenting through preteen/teen years requires a different approach...
If you want an approach that works, it's now or never...
YOU KNOW THAT FEELING OF GUILT AFTER YOU LOSE YOUR COOL OR THREATEN TO TAKE EVERYTHING AWAY...
That's what happens when you are triggered, feel powerless, and are exhausted from trying everything to reach her, and her sass, back talk, and "I don't care" attitude just won't quit.
Unfortunately, losing your cool doesn't make your relationship any better, in fact, it sets her up to feel misunderstood and ultimately impacts her sense of emotional safety (with you and others) for years to come.
Have you found yourself:
- Exhausted from trying to find the right parenting approach to get her on board with your rules and nothing seems to work.
- Worrying about her current or future decision-making, because your relationship lacks trust.
- In all-out screaming matches with your fiery daughter, and don't know how to have that loving relationship you want for both of you.
- On the receiving end of her emotional outbursts with no idea what to do, or how to help her, feeling more and more powerless by the day.
- Sounding like a broken record, lecturing, nagging, begging, trying to communicate calmly, only to lose your cool again and again.
- Second-guessing your parenting decisions and approach, constantly looking to find the one/right/perfect fix to help set her up for success because nothing seems to get through to her.
- Fearful that one wrong move will put you on the fast track to becoming a "no-contact" story 20 years from now! Ick! (I know, but this is a thing now!)
Mama, You're Not Alone!
The world is chaotic and there is a lot of noise about what IS the best approach…
So many moms find themselves WANTING to parent with compassion, call it Gentle Parenting if you want…
But the real problem is, this was NOT their experience growing up. So when push comes to shove THEY revert to old ways of parenting.
Punishment, grounding, taking away phones, computers, social media, and anything else you can think of to get them to ‘CARE’, but what you get in return is the eye roll, sighs, snarky remark, a stubborn non-moving wall that continues to remind you that no matter what you do, she is NOT phased…
But she is phased... Each argument, each punishment, each time her emotions are dismissed by you, she falls deeper into the core belief that YOU DON'T CARE.
✨That SHE is not worth YOUR effort.✨
When you let your emotions win, SHE is losing, over and over.
Calling this 'teen angst' and dismissing it as something she will hopefully 'grow out of' does nothing but ensure a cycle of escalating difficulties, and further tears apart her self-worth (and your relationship).
The longer these issues remain unaddressed, the more complex and entrenched they become, leading to exacerbated parenting challenges and long-term emotional health struggles for your daughter.
Making a simple yet powerful shift in your parenting approach and embracing a New Healthier path forward...
Living CALM - IS that SHIFT!
It offers a proven method to teach moms how to handle even the most triggering parenting moments and help them raise daughters with less struggle and more self-confidence (for you both) and connection.
Imagine if...
- You knew exactly how to get through to her and could parent her the way she needs you to when she is overrun by her emotions.
- You knew Exactly how to handle yourself when she is reactive so that your daughter gets to feel seen and supported by you.
- You could finally stop taking her behaviors and attitudes personally, and instead let her HAVE her emotional ups and downs, and you get to be hear safe place to land.
- You didn't have to yell, punish or guilt trip your daughter to get her to help out, do what you ask and cooperate.
- You could have productive and peaceful conversations without snark, attitude, and eye rolls and actually grow together.
- You build trust in your relationship with her and feel confident when she heads off as a teen and beyond, she is capable of making healthy and safe choices.
- You could be the mom you want to be, and finally parent in a way that leaves you feeling GOOD in your parenting.
This is exactly what we are doing for mothers and daughters with Living CALM.
INTRODUCING...
The breakthrough parenting program, crafted exclusively for moms ready to transform their family dynamic. Imagine effortlessly guiding your daughter to fully understand herself, make wise choices, and approach life with solid confidence. Say hello to a future where your daughter thrives, deeply connected to her true self. Because every mom deserves the key to unlocking her daughter's fullest potential.
ENROLL ME NOW!
I feel much calmer and able to tackle the issues that we're having with our son now without being completely overwhelmed and underwater. I just want to thank you for that. For keeping it real and using your education, skills, and experience to help moms like me. I don't feel so alone and so bad about myself as a mother as l was feeling.
Megan
AMS - Mom of 3
This course has definitely given me perspective on how there can be multiple true stories and sides to one situation. I have learned to step outside my initial emotional reactions to see things differently. appreciate that this group has taught me to treat and respect my teen as his own person, giving him a voice and a vote on things concerning him.
Asena
This course has given me so many tools to support my kids who have struggled with mental health issues for so long. Pam and the community have been so helpful in normalizing the tough stuff and providing support without judgment, this was so huge for me.
AMS Mom of 2
"THEIR RELATIONSHIP HAS COMPLETELY SHIFTED"
My kids used to fight, because they interpreted their siblings’ actions as uncaring, and it caused me so much stress. But now they have learned how to communicate and regulate their own emotions, they have a deeper more loving. connected relationships between themselves without me being involved in refereeing their interactions, and when there is conflict we all have the tools to handle it.
Jodi G - Mom of 3 Daughters
MODULE 1
Calm Mastery
An introduction to how all of this actually works, you get to tackle the overwhelm and impulsivity that can lead to conflict and disconnection at home. Learn to soothe your nervous system, ensuring you respond rather than react to your daughter as she grows and learns, keeping your home a peaceful haven away from the world's chaos.
MODULE 2
Your Resilience Blueprint
Here you will address the inconsistency and emotional rollercoaster of parenting by integrating nervous system regulation habits and innovative brain hacks designed to fortify your mental resilience and emotional stability, ensuring a safe, supportive, and consistent environment for your daughter to thrive in. Modeling emotional management and regulation will allow your daughter to feel safe figuring out this process for herself.
MODULE 3
Blocks to Breakthroughs
The mind is so powerful! In this module, you will unravel the tangled web of thoughts and beliefs that obstruct your desired parenting path. And gain clarity and awareness around the limiting beliefs that hinder your confidence, empowering you to guide your daughter with assurance.
MODULE 4
Rewiring the Brain
As you move along your journey of shifting your thoughts and beliefs, and shift from negative, knee-jerk reactions to thoughtful responses by altering your brain's processing patterns. Overcome self-sabotage and communication barriers that create distance, fostering a closer bond with your daughter.
MODULE 5
How to Talk So Your Daughter Will Listen
Communication is at the root of your ability to connect and support your daughter. Here you will tackle the communication breakdowns and boundary battles that lead to arguments and defiance. Master listening and communication skills to ensure your daughter feels heard and respected, promoting mutual understanding.
MODULE 6
Becoming a Mindful Mom
In this module, you will break away from the cycle of judgment and criticism that strains the mother-daughter relationship. Embrace mindfulness principles to nurture a supportive, open relationship that encourages your daughter to be her best self.
MODULE 7
Mini-Daily Practices to Stay Chill
With daily mini-practices and easy-to-follow resources, you will explore cutting-edge strategies to alter the way your brain processes, focuses, and communicates. Develop habits that foster mindfulness, enhancing your ability to engage and connect with your daughter.
MODULE 8
Parenting with Confidence
When you learn to trust yourself and her, your whole relationship shifts. Here you will confront the uncertainty and second-guessing that undermines your parenting. Learn to trust your intuition, understand your daughter’s emotional needs, and cultivate a relationship based on mutual understanding and trust.
MODULE 9
Peer Pressure & Your Preteen (Teen)
Raising preteen and teenage daughters comes with its unique set of challenges, in this module you get to uncover the most effective way to help your daughter navigate peer pressure, and risky behavior and embrace and love who she is! While also fine-tuning your ability to lead authentically, ignoring societal noise, and focusing on what truly matters for your daughter's development and well-being.
Through the Living CALM Experience, You Receive:
Fast-track your success!
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Instant access to the pre-work that will instantly shift how you show up for your daughter.
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Nine video and audio training modules -listed above.
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Lifetime access and all future updates to this program.
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Workbook + transcripts for each module.
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Affirmations, meditations, practices, journaling prompts + homework.
Plus Instant Access to these bonuses upon enrollment:
Fast-track your success!
- BONUS 1 >> 3 Month Access to Aligned Moms Society Community ($599 Value) This is the ONLY place you get access to 2-3 Group Coaching calls a month with Pam! Ask ALL your questions and get personalized support!
- BONUS 2 >> Harmony at Home: Parenting without Yelling the 28-days of Effective parenting tools to get them to listen and cooperate with our losing your cool, plus strategies that actually work for when they don't. (no yelling, punishment or taking away screen time required) ($197 Value)
- BONUS 3 >> Past Coaching Calls Get every coaching call from the AMS Vault. You’ll have access to a huge library of mindset training, teaching on parenting, navigating the shift in parenting as your daughters grow, and so much more ($9997 value)
Meet Your Teacher
Hi! I'm Pam Godbois, LICSW
Licensed therapist, parenting coach, brain hack nerd, and mom of a teenage daughter.
As a therapist and mother, I share a deep passion (and Understanding!) for supporting moms as they navigate the challenges of raising daughters.
One of the things I’ve found time and time again is that moms often fall into parenting habits based on how they were parented, even if they really don't want to.
Parenting starts to get more challenging around the 3rd grade, and moms often will try anything to fix things but it just makes matters worse.
Twenty-five years as a therapist has taught me this, there are a lot of things we can do to help our daughters avoid the pitfalls struggles, and challenges.
And that's exactly what we are doing inside Living CALM! I look forward to seeing you inside!
xoxo
I would go from 0-100 in a matter of seconds whenever chaos arose or kids started yelling. I had no idea how to manage my own emotions/nervous system and let that overflow into how I would react to a situation. I feel a great sense of calm now that I have the tools to manage my nervous system and I feel that has had such a positive impact on my family as well as my own wellbeing.
Amanda
Pam gives us the best tools and accountability for helping us feel successful as mothers.
I no longer feel lost googling for answers and l've stopped torturing myself with perpetual uncertainty. The brain- space, and sanity this group has given me is Amazing!
Mandy
I feel as though I have healed my relationship with Miss 11 and she's voluntarily hugging me and saying she loves me. We had FUN tonight swimming with the dog. Gives me the encouragement that I can make this work for Mr 8 & I'm setting boundaries and making sure my needs are also met.
Leslie
The encouragement, self-reflection, and guidance I received truly aligns me with the tools I needed to show up as my best self as a mother. One of the most helpful parts of the program so far was the flow-by-flow language customized to my particular situation. I used that language and mindset) over and over again.
Dawn
I was struggling with my 11-year-old so much when I joined, and this course has been a game changer for getting me to shift my approach AND getting her to be more agreeable. We are no longer fighting over every little thing.
Monica
Pam's understanding of neurodivergence and experience with mental health has been better than any therapy I have had in my life. Not only that, it has helped me shift my approach and stay calm with my kids, which has been SO hard for me.
LC- Mom of 2
This course has been so amazingly helpful, but I'll be honest, the best thing is the fact that Pam swears, such a great balance of expert teaching and authentic fellow mom, it's like I've finally found my tribe.
Jo
When you join us inside Living Calm, you'll get all the tools you need to navigate the ever changing landscape that is parenting through the teen years.
The relationship between the mother and daughter is paramount. When she feels heard, respected, and supported as she heads into young adulthood, her bond with you will grow and she will feel better equipped to navigate the rest of her life.
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